Am I "trans enough"
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 100%

    Why do you not feel cis? Maybe your identity lies in the non-binary spectrum.

    Yeah I don't have a good answer for this. Not do I know how to get one. I've kind of always thought I really was a girl, just too scared to transition or admit it. But very recently I'm questioning that. I don't necessarily think I'm a girl. But I know that being a "guy" just isn't right either.

    I guess I'm not totally even sure what "non binary" even means. Like, I've always felt like it was a cop out kind of identity. And maybe that is just more residence that it resonates with me and is something scary or IDK. It's hard for me to accept what non binary actually means, and especially how it relates to identifying as trans. Assuming the non binary label fits what I am, am I "trans"?

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    Transfem Fal 3mo ago 100%
    Am I "trans enough"

    So I know everyone is going to answer "yes", but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in. I'm AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I've always felt that was wrong though. But I don't necessarily think I'm a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis. Am I "trans"? I don't feel "cis", but I feel like calling myself trans just isn't accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option? And a complicating factor is that I'm basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online "t4t". Would other trans people consider me "trans"?

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    Anon appears in a viral tiktok
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 95%

    I think the point was he didn't expose HIMSELF

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    Ameruleica 🦀
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 100%

    No one believes that you actually believe any of that.

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  • news
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    Alec Baldwin’s involuntary manslaughter case dismissed, cannot be filed again
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 87%

    And there's the added layer of Baldwin being the producer

    He was A producer

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  • Guess the Episode [Medium]
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 83%

    No, the bordello. So just keep your mouth shut

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    3rd hiker dies in Grand Canyon in last 3 weeks
  • Fal Fal 3mo ago 60%

    as the lack of humidity means you don't sweat

    Wtf? That's not his that works

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearDE
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    Is everything pointless now or am I just not trying hard enough?
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 92%

    Hey man. I don't have much advice because I'm going through basically this exact same thing. It feels like my life is falling apart, and trying to put it back together just makes things worse.

    Sorry I can't be more helpful

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAS
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    Are there worthwhile NSFW subs on other instances?
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 90%

    What kind of NSFW? Yiffit has yiff

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  • trans
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    It's okay to say this about your own body but please don't force it on others
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 95%

    I don't even know what this means. An illusion? What does that mean in this context.

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    New Crazy Taxi title will be an open-world, massively multiplayer AAA game, according to Sega
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 80%

    Black chain is dead. No one cares anymore

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  • 1 year linux anniversary :P
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 75%

    Just make sure to use kde

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  • Byron Bay is to be stripped of its nudist beach – and naturists blame ‘conservative creep’
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 94%

    San Francisco is not actually clothing optional. Full nudity is mostly illegal. You have to cover the genitals

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  • How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 50%

    I'm not the most creative person, but I do enjoy the technical aspect of creative things. I've tried to crochet and knit in the past. It's definitely a good idea. Maybe I'll order some crochet supplies and give it another shot.

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  • How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 66%

    A little bit a long time ago. Was hard for me to get into

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  • How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping
  • Fal Fal 4mo ago 50%

    Technically I'm currently traveling, that's what this month period is. I COULD go somewhere else, but I don't want to by myself. This is the best place for me mentally at the moment.

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  • I'm having some personal issues causing some severe depression and anxiety. I'd like to get past this time as fast as possible, and my days are dragging on. I can't sleep, which would be a good way to make time go fast. But I also can't just play video games, I don't have the motivation to play more than a few minutes and it also just makes me realize how alone I am with no friends or anyone I can connect with emotionally and I spiral into my anxiety and depression. I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I'm done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still. Does anyone have any suggestions? Activities I can do that are mindless that will just kill time and get me through the night before I can just go to sleep? I know this question is stupid but I'm looking for at least somewhat serious answers.

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    I'm struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don't use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It's already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I'm not included in any of that stuff. Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?

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    www.jpost.com

    Are newspapers really generating just-in-time AI generated articles based on random search engine searches? I searched DDG for "derpibooru top artists" and this was like the 4th search result.

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    This is a spam instance that reposts reddit content, but the worst part is it creates a new user for every reddit user, making it impossible to block. Since we can't block instances at the user level yet, I request we defederate from this spam instance See an example here https://alien.top/comment/2110314

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    You create a new user to repost that users content from reddit? This is absolutely ridiculous. You make it so we can't block your spam by blocking the bot user if you create a new user for every post.

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    Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there's less new yiff are around these days. Maybe it's because the brony world is winding down now that mlp gen 4 is over? Or maybe I'm just wrong?

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    chat
    Furry Chat Fal 1y ago 68%
    Yiff stories

    Is there any place for finding yiff stories? Like e621 but erotica? Ideally with ratings and such. I remember there being a couple places decades ago, but wouldn't really know where to go now.

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    youtu.be

    I was looking through some old songs from animated movies tonight. This one brought on some intense nostalgia. I know all dogs go to heaven 2 isn't the best movie, but I had the biggest crush on Sasha la Fleur. And I very vividly remember loving this song, but feeling embarrassed to admit it to anyone (don't think I ever did). With shit like this though https://youtu.be/6wjR1ZciUBQ, how did everyone not turn out to be furries?

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