Had a long video chat tonight with a friend I hadn't talked to in months. She's been in a pretty complicated relationship with a guy. We talked about that for awhile and then we were listening to music together. It felt really good to hang out again and the feeling seemed to be mutual. Then suddenly he was going to come over soon and then a few minutes later he was there so she had to go. I don't really feel justified being upset with her because we did chat for hours, but the suddenness caught me off guard, and now I'm just feeling really off.

It's only Monday, but so far things are going really well on multiple fronts. The last couple of weeks have been pretty stressful, and I'm finally feeling like I can catch my breath and relax a bit. I have a four day weekend coming up, during which some friends will be in town staying at our place. And the big news is that my partner accepted a fully remote job offer, which means we'll be moving after this school year ends. It will definitely be bittersweet, but I'm looking forward to being closer to family.

I don't know anything about her; what is it that you don't like?

Appalachia is flooded and tons of people can't get clean water or evacuate due to roads collapsing. Opened Tumblr, saw a smug liberal practically orgasming over "you Trump voters" getting what we deserve.

That shit pisses me off so bad. Different part of Appalachia, but I lived in WV for a year and will go off when someone makes a comment about the people there. There are a lot of great folks fighting the good fight.

Week has been a fuckin mixed bag. At the moment, I'm at a specific combination of - drunk / high / angry at injustices / loving people for what they are trying to give - that makes me want to yell and cry and connect with people. But connections are also a mixed bag for me.

Happy belated!

Yep. I know a guy whose dad was an engineer for Boeing doing something space related. He's now a flat earther because his particular flavor of Christianity says so.

Congratulations!!!

Same! I really thought there was something wrong with my brain for a minute there.

Good luck, you've got this!

Trying not to put unnecessary expectations on myself. Only somewhat succeeding at that, but at least I'm realizing that those expectations are unnecessary, so hey that's progress.

I'm the same way! I think it's because I'm friends with enough full on extroverts that my social battery fills up without me trying before I ever reach the point of thinking, "Hey, I'd like to chat / hang out with someone. I should reach out."

I really liked the whole Southern Reach Trilogy, but it's not for everyone. Each book is very different from the last, and you're not going to get all your questions answered. If you don't think that will bug you, give it a shot!

Thanks for the reminder, time to play wingspan again.

Right, I'd be down for a tofu sandwich but why like that???

I guess it depends on your definition of "good" and "sucks." Salt and vinegar kettle chips definitely aren't nutritious, but as far as my tastes go, they are fucking good and definitely don't suck.

Upvoted for the tamagotchi / virtual pets. The other stuff, too, but mostly the virtual pets.

Yes, teachers are mandated reporters. They will be able to get the ball rolling.

Hey, New Mexico's pretty good!

Somewhat haphazardly. I typically listen to multiple genres in one session as well. What I usually do is if I hear a song I like that's not already in a playlist (or if I like it enough that I want it in multiple playlists), I'll chuck it in at the end of one. Then when I have downtime I play around with the song order so that I like how each song transitions to the next. I enjoy doing that as a way to unwind. This method isn't great if you're the type that needs everything organized all the time though since my playlists are usually in some level of a work in progress state! The names are very boring - P01, P02, etc. I also have some playlists that are more themed, for instance a road trip playlist with more upbeat songs. I'll usually play around with that one based on who is road tripping with me and what type of music I think they'll enjoy.