An infallible dating strategy
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    6h ago 100%

    Yeah well society is an asshole and personally I ignore most of what it says.

    You're in a position where you can affect whether the people around you feel like a worthless piece of shit, or like a valuable, appreciated human being. If you're usually doing the latter and trying to avoid the former (and make it right when it does happen) then you're not a worthless piece of shit.

    You deserve to receive that too, and I'm sorry that you aren't.

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    Cops shouldn't count as emergency services.
    Can AI make video games more immersive? Some studios turn to AI-fueled NPCs for more interaction
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    10h ago 100%

    That's immensely expensive though, and not guaranteed to work because much of that stuff is still research stage. You're right that paring down the models to make them leaner and more specialized is the primary direction that current research is pursuing, but it's far from certain at this point how to do it, how well it will work, and how small you can get them before they start to fall apart. Not something game studios are likely to gamble their budgets on, at least not yet.

    We're nowhere near the "just hire a guy to trim it down instead of hiring writers" stage, and it's unclear yet whether or not that's where we'll end up. We could pull off "just hire a guy to fine-tune an existing foundation model," but that doesn't make them smaller.

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    Chunky crochet scarf that I made for my husband
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    11h ago 100%

    Really cool concept, and it looks like you nailed the execution.

    Does acrylic yarn usually feel creaky and stiff? I have a handmade crocheted scarf and it's pretty soft and flowy... But maybe it got some special attention that I didn't know about.

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    thanks_shakey_snake
    18h ago 100%

    I assume that's a reference to what the book-burners in Fahrenheit 451 are called, and not a weirdly misogynistic gatekeep, lol.

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    thanks_shakey_snake
    18h ago 100%

    Firefighting shenanigans go all the way back to ancient Rome: Marcus Licinius Crassus formed Rome's first fire brigade, which would basically extort the owners of burning buildings to buy them on the cheap. Per Wikipedia:

    The first ever Roman fire brigade was created by Crassus. Fires were almost a daily occurrence in Rome, and Crassus took advantage of the fact that Rome had no fire department, by creating his own brigade—500 men strong—which rushed to burning buildings at the first cry of alarm. Upon arriving at the scene, however, the firefighters did nothing while Crassus offered to buy the burning building from the distressed property owner, at a miserable price. If the owner agreed to sell the property, his men would put out the fire; if the owner refused, then they would simply let the structure burn to the ground. After buying many properties this way, he rebuilt them, and often leased the properties to their original owners or new tenants.

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  • PSA: You might be unknowingly doxxing yourself by sharing links containing trackers
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    3d ago 100%

    For anyone who wants to take this seriously but doesn't know what to do:

    TL;DR: Chop off everything after the question mark.

    Usually these trackers are at the end of the URL, after a ?. That's called the "query string parameters" of the URL, and it's where developers will attach extra information for the server or page. Often, those are benign and useful: It's a token that identifies you to the server, or it's context about what you're trying to do. Sometimes you can eyeball the query string params and guess what they do, e.g.:

    coolvideos.com/videos/5432?fullscreen=true&autoplay=true&time=12021

    or

    cheapshoes.com/search?query=adidas+tennis&category=womens&filter=discounted

    or

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ

    If you chopped off everything after the question mark, the URL should still work, it'd just give you a default version of that page. In these examples, there would be no privacy risk to sharing the URLs somewhere.

    But query string params are also where alot of marketing/tracking bullshit goes. When you see URLs with UTM params like "utm_medium" and "utm_campaign", that's marketing bullshit. They can also contain info about who you are, like what OP is describing: If it's some kind of referral link for example, then it might look like pyramidscheme.com/special-offer?associate_id=455&source=facebook. It might be esoteric too, like the "igsh" param in OP's post (which I assume is short for "Instagram share" or something?). That WOULD be a privacy concern.

    So yeah... Often you can eyeball it and figure out what (if anything) to remove... And if in doubt, try chopping off the question mark and everything following it, and see if the URL still works.

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  • Apple study exposes deep cracks in LLMs’ “reasoning” capabilities
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    5d ago 100%

    People working with these technologies have known this for quite awhile. It's nice of Apple's researchers to formalize it, but nobody is really surprised-- Least of all the companies funnelling traincars of money into the LLM furnace.

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    thanks_shakey_snake
    5d ago 66%

    Oh wow you're right, lol... 3 links to a story about the same person, Ellen Tara James-Penny.

    Everywhere indeed.

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    An infallible dating strategy
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    5d ago 100%

    Careful about where the posts come from-- Tinder et. al. have a vested interest in spreading the notion that the normal thing to do is to meet online, and so they publish surveys and press releases that reinforce that idea. Editorialists want a scoop about how the Digital Age is changing everything and the Youths Today are completely subverting existing norms.

    Some people meet online, yeah, and good for them. But still, going outside and having interactions with real people is still the primary way to form relationships, and that's helpful in dating, career, hobbies, and wellbeing in general.

    You don't just suck. Online dating is still hard, and everything is even harder when you don't have a solid foundation of other relationships in your life.

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  • What technology purchase felt like a major upgrade in your life?
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    thanks_shakey_snake
    6d ago 100%

    I think you mean "Sacrilege" or maybe "Sacrilegious." That means "The violation of something sacred."

    Sacrosanct means "sacred and beyond question," which is related, but kind of the opposite of what you mean.

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  • https://arxiv.org/pdf/2409.06203

    There was another thread with a paywalled article, but here's the actual study that found that smart TVs use "automatic content recognition" to build an ad profile for you based on what's on your screen... including HDMI content streamed from a laptop, game console, etc. Yikes. > At a high level, ACR works by periodically capturing the content displayed on a TV’s screen and matching it against a content library to detect the content being viewed on the TV. It is essentially a Shazam-like technology for audio/video content on the smart TV [38]. ACR is implemented by all major smart TV manufacturers, including Samsung [9] and LG [55 ]. > Our findings indicate that (1) ACR operates even when it is used as a “dumb” display via HDMI; (2) opt-out mecha- nisms stop ACR traffic; (3) ACR works differently in the UK as com- pared to the US. So it seems like you're opted-in by default, but you can stop ACR traffic by simply configuring six different options on Samsung, or _eleven_ different options on LG. Oh, and this doesn't seem to happen when you're using native streaming apps like Netflix or Disney+, because hey, they wouldn't want to infringe on those companies' rights by spying on them, right?

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    I keep interacting with systems-- like my bank, etc.-- that require (or allow) you to add one or more trusted devices, which facilitate authentication in a variety of ways. Some services let you set _any_ device as a trusted device-- Macbook, desktop, phone, tablet, whatever. But many-- again, like my bank-- only allow you to trust a mobile device. Login confirmation is on a mobile device. Transaction confirmation: mobile device. Change a setting: Believe it or not, confirm on mobile device. That kind of makes sense in that confirming on a second device is more secure... That's one way to implement MFA. But of course, the inverse is not true: If I'm using the mobile app, there's no need to confirm my transactions on desktop or any other second device, and in fact, I'm not allowed to. But... Personally, I trust my mobile device much _less_ than my desktop. I feel like I'm more likely to lose it or have it compromised in some way, and I feel like I have less visibility and control into what's running on it and how it's secured. I still think it's _fairly_ trustworthy, but just not categorically better than my Macbook. So maybe I'm missing something: Is there some reason that an Android/iOS device would be inherently more secure than a laptop? Is it laziness on the part of (e.g.) my bank? Or is something else driving this phenomenon?

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    I'm planning to open a new chequing account in the near future, and I'm contemplating bailing on RBC. I've been with them for a very long time, and one possible outcome is that I'll just open a new RBC account and be done with it. That'd be... fine. But for a variety of reasons (including my satisfaction with RBC trending steadily downward), I'm thinking about opening this new account elsewhere. I don't have a ton of hard requirements, and I'm not really sure what to look for in a bank, but the following would be nice: * Good online banking experience, particularly desktop (RBC is _shockingly_ bad at this) * Good credit card; easy to make payments from the new account * Minimal fees * Easy e-transfers * Real security (another thing RBC is terrible at) * Neat rewards would be cool * Low-fee, low-friction investing would also be cool-- I don't really do much investing, but I'd like to be able to Any suggestions would be great, including anti-suggestions if you happen to know of a bank that I should avoid.

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    For reference (as per [Wikipedia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conway%27s_law)): > Any organization that designs a system (defined broadly) will produce a design whose structure is a copy of the organization's communication structure. > > — Melvin E. Conway Imagine interpreting that as advice on how you should try to design things, lol. Tbf, I think most of the post is just typical LinkedIn fluff, but I didn't want to take the poor fellow out of context.

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