We've graduated from age gap discourse to height gap discourse
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 11h ago 100%

    Height wise they are a child, sir

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  • We've graduated from age gap discourse to height gap discourse
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 12h ago 100%

    I must confirm how tall you are and that of any relations before I take your opinion into consideration

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  • We've graduated from age gap discourse to height gap discourse
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 14h ago 100%

    Is a 10 inch height difference lowkey noncey?

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  • Trump derangement syndrome has taken my mother away
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 1d ago 100%

    I feel like Boomers in general are just getting more unhinged.

    My parents don’t have Trump derangement in either direction, they are barely political, but the politics they do have and express seems to have gotten more and more reactionary over the last decade or so.

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  • That Yamcha reference.
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 1d ago 100%

    Someone needs a taste of the Wolf Fang Fist

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  • Trans Megathread for the Week of 10/14 to 10/20
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 1d ago 100%

    "The conflict between Israel and Palestine is 2,000 years old"

    People who say this shit are so unserious

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  • I'm an alcoholic because the pope is woke
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 1d ago 100%

    fair to say cw: for religion in all of these

    ::: spoiler Personal Religious History My relationship with the Church or religion hasn't always been steady, I had an atheist phase around high school, but after that I kind of developed an interest in myth, religion and philosophy.
    That makes me sound a lot smarter than I was, my understanding of a lot of it was pretty shallow and partially motivated by a desire to seem cultured and intelligent.
    Still, there was some kind of desire for spirituality behind it which eventually led me to looking into Unitarian Universalists as their whole vibe was kind of syncretic "every religion has something important to teach".

    After awhile I felt drawn back to Christianity, but I wasn't really sure what to do about it.
    I settled on the United Church of Christ because there was a decent amount of them where I lived, they were fairly liberal, and they seemed to have a ecumenical vibe.
    Something about it though rubbed me the wrong way and it would continue to rub me the wrong way as I explored other options in the "theologically liberal mainline protestant sphere".
    The Church had Calvanist roots which I didn't really vibe with, but it also felt like these roots almost didn't matter at all.
    It felt like often the religion itself was not taken very seriously, that it was merely liberalism and liberals with ritual.
    To them The Eucharist was a mere symbol, and it didn't feel like it would be out of place to hold the belief that the Resurrection didn't really happen, or that Jesus was just a human with nice teachings.

    At this time I delved more into the differences between Protestantism and Catholicism and came away with a greater appreciation for certain aspects of Catholic theology.
    I wanted something closer to my upbringing and more closely connected to the history and tradition of the Church, which lead me to Episcopalians and their Anglo-Catholic tradition.
    I still struggled with the liberalism thing mentioned above though, the only thing really keeping me was their stance on LGBT people, but after finding Catholic Churches nearby that were LGBT-friendly and whose Priest was very kind and took his faith very seriously I kind of abandoned ship.
    :::

    ::: spoiler Why Christianity? It really comes down to The Trinity, the Incarnation and the Resurrection I guess.

    The idea of their being a God who loves us so much that He would become like us, to be closer to us and to bring us closer to Him is admittedly a nice thought.
    The revelation of God through Christ turns the whole world upside down, he is a King, but he is born in a manger not a palace. He isn't served but serves. Christ's Kingship subverts our very ideas of Kingship.

    He doesn't conquer through killing and death, but in dying conquers death. And in his Resurrection there is hope for the whole world. Hope that death and injustice and sorrow will not have the final say and in the end every tear will be wiped away.

    The Trinity likewise is a concept many cannot wrap their head around, but to me it is one of the most meaningful aspects of Christian theology.
    In the Trinity the very being of our universe and reality is shown to be relational and that relationship is one of love.
    It sort of effects my whole outlook on life.

    :::

    ::: spoiler Why Catholicism? I suppose the most obvious question would be why a trans person would be part of the Catholic Church?
    Like I said above, I was lucky enough to find Churches that are welcoming and open to trans people. There is also a few Catholic organizations dedicated to ministering to and advocating for LGBT Catholics, a Dominican Priest involved in this has recently been named a Cardinal even.
    Pope Francis's official statements and documents last year saying same-sex couples could be blessed and that trans people could be baptized and be Godparents has also made me feel more comfortable as a trans Catholic.

    Really despite a lot of valid criticisms Francis's Papacy, the spirit of his Papacy and of the Synod on Synodality and really the spirit of Vatican ii he is trying to carry forward give me hope.
    It really feels like the Church is trying to be a "universal church".
    I have a shared connection with the Haitians and Latin Americans in my community and with other people throughout the world.
    I mean there are protestants all over the world and they are connected through organizations, don't get me wrong, but my experience just left me feeling like I was in white people central.
    idk if that makes sense.

    As for more theological reasons: Mary
    Purgatory and praying for the dead Transubstantiation

    :::

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  • I'm an alcoholic because the pope is woke
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 1d ago 100%

    As a trans Catholic it kind of hurts that the Pope saying something not completely venomous about people like me is enough to drive someone to drink.

    But mostly it’s just kind of sad how wrapped in hatred their Christianity is.
    I try not to put much stock in what these “online trad convert” types think tho.

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  • Trans Megathread for the Week of 10/14 to 10/20
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 2d ago 100%

    Sometimes in a relationship you have to take a firm hand top-use-words

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  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 2d ago 100%

    that was a problem for me as well

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  • Thank god freddi the fish isn't woke.
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 3d ago 100%

    I disagree Freddi Fish is very gender ambiguous

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  • I don’t think I could come back from this
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 3d ago 100%

    If he puts up with Harry, I think he'd put up with me.

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  • I thought this was a joke then I see the sub name. What in the fresh hell is this
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 3d ago 100%

    this reads like something from disco elysium

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  • A broken clock is right twice a day
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 3d ago 100%

    probably his funniest tweet

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  • Trans Megathread for the Week of 10/14 to 10/20
  • Tomboymoder Tomboymoder 3d ago 100%

    I mean I've switched to injections so they've just been kind of sitting around gathering dust

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  • mods pls address this.

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    wtf is the different shades of red supposed to mean on this stupid map? At first I thought it was conventional wars, but we literally invaded and occupied Haiti and the Dominican Republic and Panama and they are pink. And why are Belgium, Hungary, Romania and Bulgaria dark red? The more I look at it the less I understand.

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    All I'm doing is looking at videos reviewing prayer books and every time I am getting these weird gun ads. ![broken](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.hexbear.net%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F87b7fede-550b-4974-9aa8-b01e67cf5b35.png "emoji broken") "Oh, you're Christian? DON'T YOU WANT THESE REALLY COOL INSTRUMENTS OF VIOLENCE AND DEATH!?" Like....no. What? ![limmy-what](https://lemm.ee/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhexbear.net%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F1d884869-177d-43da-8766-38a919d19f89.png "emoji limmy-what")

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    It feels like all my relatives listen to this shit.

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    I’ll still strive to work and care for the oppressed because it’s the right thing to do, but I will strive to no longer be surprised or despair when everything fails.

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    I had basically given up on electoralism for years at this point. I do not believe the western working class by and large has any revolutionary potential, basically JDPON-pilled. But the genocide in Palestine really made me more invested in this whole dog and pony show again. I guess I figured like…sure bourgeoise democracy will not bring about socialism, but at the very least you can still get some concessions potentially out of it. Perhaps I was naive, but like…I wanted to hope there was some way the Democrats could be convinced to stop it by November, even if it was electoralist bullshit I feel like the Palestinians deserved (and still deserve) even a futile attempt. But seeing the shit with the DSA, especially the SMC and Groundwork caucuses, seeing unions who oppose the genocide endorse Biden/Harris right out the gate, seeing the Uncommitted movement do the same while the Harris campaign has done nothing but spit in their face…. I am filled with a helpless rage. Americans are the most pathetic contemptible creatures on this earth. I’M NOT EVEN ASKING FOR SOCIALISM! ALL I’M ASKING FOR IS THE DEMOCRATS TO COME AROUND ON AN ISSUE 77% OF DEMOCRATS AND 61% OF AMERICANS OPPOSE! BUT EVEN THAT IS TOO MUCH, TOO HARD FOR THESE ORGANIZATIONS TO FIGHT FOR EVEN WHEN IT IS ALLEDGELY THEIR WHOLE REASON FOR EXISTING!! I knew Americans were useless and selfish, and short-sighted and stupid…but I didn’t think they were to this extent. That was my mistake I guess.

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    You guys are not winning, I don't care about you getting 5%, the only thing I care about is utilizing leverage to stop a genocide. Useless fucks.

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    Primacy of Conscience though I guess

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    https://x.com/sailorrooscout/status/1832073394994479312

    idk shit about science, but I thought I would post it here. I hope it's true.

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    If I have to see Walz or Obama one more time saying they “need” my donation I am gonna lose it. NO YOU DON’T! THAT’S WHAT YOUR DONORS ARE FOR! Fucking thieves and charlatans.

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    not necessarily about the great uncle, I’m just bored.

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    This was taken from a blog post written by JD Vance in 2001 btw Like…even if you believe all the great man propaganda about him they spew in the West, the idea that you would ever think to compare someone like Churchill to Christ is so fucking borderline blasphemous to me. “Oh, who do I believe is the second greatest man to ever live as the pious Christian I totally am? Francis of Asissi? Any Saint? No, it’s some fat alcoholic racist Warhawk.” Fucking spare me.

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    it's done now pls don't be mad at puppy

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    Keywords (approve, support, yes, ok, puppy)

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    :doggirl-tears:

    Keywords (cry, sob, pathetic, puppy)

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    :doggirl-sweat:

    Keywords (nervous, anxious, worry, confused, puppy)

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    :doggirl-smug:

    Keywords (smirk, troll, puppy)

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    :doggirl-smart:

    Keywords (glasses, nerd, dork, genius, puppy)

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